When I gave my daughter the nickname Lil Diva, it was because at a very young age she demonstrated a natural talent for turning on the drama.
My son also possesses this ability, but has failed to learn the most important lesson: the sweet, gooey smiles will get you everything.
Lil Diva is a bit more savvy, withholding the non-angelic looks for me.
Sometimes she will even perform them on command.
You might recall how last year she was in a Baby Glare-Off contest. While she didn’t win, it made one thing obvious: her glare is on par with the evil Chucky.
With age, she has only perfected her “angry face” (as she calls it) even more, and the resemblance is downright scary.
This face can appear if I dare take a photo when she’s not in the mood. It can also manifest itself by:
A) refusing to give her a cheesestick.
B) telling her to share with her brother.
C) politely requesting she attempt to use the potty.
D) explaining why she needs to lay down and it is unacceptable to run around in poop.
E) refusing to give her Rice Chex, “pee-nuss” (peanuts-the one word she fails to enunciate), or whatever snack she has decided she wants.
F) suggesting it is quiet/nap time.
G) telling her to make her “angry face”.
Not to be pigeonholed into one look—because teachers must only see her as a paragon of angelic sweetness—she has expanded her repertoire for the appropriate target audience and situation.
For the teachers and the grandparents, there is The Angel.
For her brother there is The Pirate.
For playing mommy to real baby there is The Proud Momma.
For gathering sympathy, there is The Poor Little Girl.
For those who doubt her climbing ability, there is The Determined.
For those who want to snatch her laptop, there is The I Dare You to Try It.
For the need for speed there is The Gleeful Dare Devil.
For those who would steal her bubbles or try to help her, there is The Don’t Even Think Abouddit.
For plotting what to do when I turn my back, there is The Conniver.
For when she decides to turn on the charm, there is The Jedi Grin.
Finally, for when her face is tired but she still wants adoration, there is The Sleeping Beauty.
I just fear the day she goes from Lil Diva to Queen Diva.
We are in so much trouble.
Wow, you’ve gone from complete radio silence to posting like there’s no tomorrow! I’m going to have to start scheduling time in my day for “Reading Kelly’s Posts”!
Very cute, though. Her hair is so long now!
Don’t worry, I fly back to Texas tomorrow. I will no longer have copious amounts of uninterrupted time to blog.
It’s more of the dam of writers block breaking, and the 100 ideas I had while I was away, plus new ones, coming to fruition during the one time I don’t have children demanding my attention.
It is a bit surreal.
But it will slow down, don’t worry. 🙂 I usually take weekends off, too.
And yes, she still hasn’t had a hair cut. She’s almost three and lot of two year olds have more hair than she does. But there is less to tangle that way.
Yes – you’re in trouble. Lots & lots of trouble.
Leila hasn’t quite worked out any face — she has her mood, and her face matches her mood (a poker player, she is not), but the concept of actually trying to put on a face for a specific reason hasn’t quite crossed her mind yet.
we’re in a ton of trouble when she starts – because, when she wants something, instead of the tantrum face, when she plays the “all sweet & lovey” face, I’ll be useless to say no.
Yeah,the sweet & lovey face packs quite the punch. It has all Lil Diva’s teachers in love with her.
It was so much easier when their faces were the barometers for their mood. Enjoy it while it lasts.
Such an expressive little girl!!! I love all those faces 🙂 I bet Daddy is a huge sucker for her!!
Oh, totally. She can wrap daddy right around her little finger.
I’m a tougher cookie.
Though the hug greeting I got today was awesome.
Yikes…. that angry face is kind of scary! But she is really expressive for such a little girl! I do love the angel look though.
The Angel looks is very powerful. Sadly, I don’t see it as much as other adults do.
I’m glad that your time in Canada gave you time to write. Don’t worry when you can’t. Just keep journals. Write the old fashioned way. And send me an email now and then.
That said, you are in sooooo much trouble! 🙂 Hope to meet the Li’l Diva while she is still little!
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OMG, she’s a sweet knob – wish we had one like her! Even if your little diva were mute, everybody would know what she wants to express at every time…
All the best for you and your family
Robert & Johanna